We are a family woven together through adoption.

We always wanted a large family. We found joy in immersing ourselves in caring for our children and thrived on structure and consistency. Naturally we leaned on what we knew: a consistent behavioral approach with rewards and consequences. This method worked well when our children were young, but as they entered middle school, we found ourselves stuck in a cycle of frustration, anger, and fear. It became clear that what we were doing wasn’t working, but we didn’t know another way. Out of failure and desperation, God led us step by step toward change. Instead of focusing on modifying behavior, we shifted our attention to emotional connection and addressing the needs beneath the behavior. As we saw progress and growth in our family, we committed ourselves to digging deeper.

Through parent training workshops and literature, we learned how stress and trauma affect the brain. As we incorporated this knowledge into our parenting, we watched God open doors for healing. This healing sparked a passion and ignited a dream to bring hope to other struggling families.

August 2022 we purchased a home that allows us to offer safety and reduce stress as we walk alongside families. Restoration House offers real time support, education, rest, and therapeutic care for marriages and families navigating life challenges.

As we continue expanding our knowledge through training and education, supporting families, and walking with our teen and young adult children, we continue to see our dream come to life. We truly believe there is HOPE for every family.